Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Graduation Recap

This post has been a long time in the making, since I graduated over a week ago! Since then, I have started my bar review course, which happens to be more grueling than I originally thought. That is, however, only because I'm in complete denial that I should still be in a school setting. 

Back to graduation weekend...
I got up super early (read: before Al was up for the day) and drove to the Denver airport to catch my plane home. I was surprised in Minneapolis by my grandparents and aunt and uncle picking me up at the airport. That day, we did a little shopping and had a nice dinner at my grandparent's house.

On Saturday, we just spent the day with family, relaxing, eating great food and drinking delicious Minnesota beer!
The cake Grandma made me!
On the day of graduation, I woke up to a delicious cinnamon bun breakfast. My sister did my hair and makeup (because she is really good at that stuff) and we headed to the Saint Paul River Centre around lunch time.

The student speaker was actually good - short, sweet and relatable. Our professor speaker was also good about keeping it short and sweet. The guest speaker, however, was miserable. I'm sure he had good intentions, but he was long-winded and included discussion of why we need to work out regularly and donate money to our school. 

And then I graduated!!
 Thank you, William Mitchell, for the butt-kicking, the friendships and the memories. 
Thank you, my WM friends (you know who you are) who helped me stay on track and not bail on the whole thing. 
Thank you, especially, Caroline and Megan, for many wine nights and necessary weekend getaways and for loving me through it!
Thank you, my amazing husband, for never losing his cool and for always loving me anyway. 
And, finally, thank you Mom (and family) for making me strong enough to do this and for being my biggest cheerleader possible. 

You all totally rock!

Monday, May 28, 2012

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Saturday Share

Can you believe this is the last weekend in May? I have been living in Colorado for a whole month already! We are headed out for a camping trip this weekend with another couple, so I won't be back until after the Monday holiday. 

In the meantime, here are your Saturday links: 



READ: "Spouses See More Job Choices" by Lisa Daniel at Military.com

LEARN: About the great tablets on the market by TechRepublic
(And help me pick which one I should buy, other than Apple iPad.)

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

MilGirl Interview

The lovely Melissa Jaine interviewed me for her military spouse series on her blog.
The interview is also featured on Sisterhood of the Camo Pants.








Please head over to both sites to read my interview! I tried to keep things interesting and provide information that even my long-time readers would find new and fun!


Let me know what you think!

Monday, May 21, 2012

Winner!

Graduation weekend was great! I had an amazing time with all my family and friends and even though I was home for a short 48 hours, it felt good to be "home" for a bit. 
I got back late last night and stayed with my Aunt in the Denver area so I could start my bar prep class today. Al is in the field again this week, so I am just focusing on getting through this first week of class and switching my brain back on to study-mode. 

In the meantime, you're probably waiting to hear about who won the book
7 Money Rules for Life by Mary Hunt


Congratulations, Noel
I will contact you by email for further details.

Have a happy Monday, y'all!

Sunday, May 20, 2012

Today, I Graduate!

Holy crap. I can't believe this day is here. 

My sister is doing my hair and makeup and my mother is steaming my graduation gown.
I have a pair of hot pink peep toes sitting on the dresser and my jewelery is laid out next to it.

Soon we will leave for the ceremony, where I will receive my law school diploma. Eek!

My trip home has been delightful and I loved seeing my family and friends once again. I am feeling a little spoiled this weekend - with attention and praise - and am humbled by all the love! I'm all smiles.

Shortly after the ceremony, I will be whisked away to the airport to fly back to Colorado so I can start my class tomorrow. Then real-life starts again.

Until then, I am going to live briefly in the glow of this event!

Saturday, May 19, 2012

Saturday Share

I'm back in Minnesota for graduation weekend. It's good to see family and friends even though I just left a few weeks ago. The best part, of course, is the actual graduation, which will be tomorrow afternoon. I think this new life will feel more real once I don that gown and accept that diploma!

I pulled together another set of links for your pleasure: 

Which was in response to this infographic by the Obama Campaign
(**I provided both sides of the argument as a non-political, merely informative, share. I just found them both to provide good information no matter which side you're on!)


MAKE: One of these great party dips on Pizzazzerie


READ: This list of 101 Timeless Life Lessons by Marc & Angel


Don't forget to enter my giveaway! The winner will be picked when I return on Monday.
Have a great weekend!


Thursday, May 17, 2012

Another Organization Post: The Storage Closet

We are lucky to have a lot of storage space in this apartment. After getting all the smaller projects done last week while Al was in the field, I decided to recruit his help for the bigger project: the entry-way storage closet.
Luckily, with the two of us, and a lot of discretion, we were able to really overhaul the whole thing. Using bins and boxes we already owned (I bought nothing to complete this project!) we got it squared away in a few hours! 
1: I pulled all the miscellaneous plastic drawers we hadn't used elsewhere. I didn't care if they matched, but I was aware of the various sizes for their different uses. This way, you can pull out the drawer and find table linens, tools, paint supplies, etc... because they're all clearly labeled.
2: Plastic shelving instantly creates more space for all the boxes and bins (Lowes - previously owned)
3: Plastic file cabinet stores all our important paperwork (Great for small office spaces or when you can't afford an actual file cabinet!) (Target - previously owned)

Then, I pulled out my labels and made sure to label each box so everything was easily accessible. 
4: Labels make everything easy to find! (Walmart)

This closet will also serve as our additional office storage and bookshelf. 
The final product! An organized (albeit, not very attractive) storage closet with all of our things easy to find when you need them! Whew! 

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Organizing Heaven

Al left for the field last week, so I was left to my own devices. It was actually really easy to fill my time since I still had plenty of boxes to unpack and things to put away. Oh, and those final edits on both of my papers. I devised a plan to spend my days writing (as though it was my job) and then come home/stop at dinner time. I spent my evenings watching all my favorite shows and organizing. 

For this post, I want to focus on what I did to organize the entire apartment, from plan to implementation and share with you the results.

Desk:
My desk is in the living room, so I need to keep it tidy and organized at all times. Luckily, I had a lot of the items I needed to make that happen.

The plan: 
- Create storage for often-used office supplies
- Create storage for paperwork, mail, etc...
- Organize school work and books
- Add a few decor elements

The results: 
1: Ikea boxes (black) - Hold important receipts, computer stuff, etc... 
2: 3-drawer - Holds scrapbooking and regularly used craft supplies 
3: Box from Target - Holds cards & stationary (DIY here
Middle photo: My cute glitter piggy bank (Old Navy) and my current reads
4: Decorate containers (Target $1 section) - Holds pens, scissors and other office supplies 
5: 3-sheld desk organizer - Holds folders and paperwork in three categories: personal, work/school & blogging

Pantry:
We have a very small pantry and limited cupboard space in the kitchen, so it was important that I utilized every single inch of it and that everything was super-accessible.

The plan:
- Create extra shelves to add storage space
- Develop layout to make daily items easily accessible
- Make space for Soda Stream
- Store cleaning supplies separate from food items
- Create storage for spices and cooking supplies

The results: 
1: Top shelf holds taller storage items, the Soda Stream, and a few smaller appliances  / Cereal containers (Dollar Store), Wire shelves (Target)
2: Pasta and other side / Wire basket (Target)
3: Baskets for go-to snacks for lunches / Baskets (Dollar Store)
4: Another shelf used to create and extra level of storage for cans and other stackables
5: Another wire basket holds napkins and paperware
6: Plastic bag holder (I DIY'd from a plastic shoe box for easy storage!) (Dollar Store)
7: Cleaning supplies and other kitchen stuff stored under the sink
The last picture: using leftover organizers, I created storage for spices and other cooking supplies.

Bathroom and Linen Closet:
There is actually quite a bit of space for storage in our bathroom and linen closet, so the biggest challenge was organizing items in such a way so we can keep it tidy. I have a slight hoarding tendency when it comes to travel size toiletries (for example: I could probably wash my hair for years without buying more shampoo) and we like to buy some soaps and supplies in bulk.

The plan: 
- Create storage for meds and first aid
- Store cleaning supplies in one place
- Set up drawers and dividers for travel toiletries
- Create system for feminine products (hidden, but accessible)

The results:
 
1: Cloth bins store various toiletries, by category, with less used ones in the back (Dollar Store)
2: Plastic basket for smaller items (Dollar store)
3: Dark wicker basket holds my hair products (Target)
4: Plastic drawer holds medical and first aid supplies for easy pull-out access (Target)
(The more-used items are in the medicine cabinet on the wall)
5: Larger stackables and less used items and large drawer holds my hoarded travel sizes
6: Bucket holds bathroom cleaning supplies
7: Another drawer holds misc. supplies that we need infrequently
8: Wicker basket for hair tools 
9: Small close-able container next to the toilet for feminine products (Dollar Store)

My closet:
So, this was the hardest part for me. Not because I'm hurting for closet space, but because I'm hurting for the power to deny myself pretty things. I just have a lot of clothes! I tried to use discretion and get rid of any items I hadn't worn or didn't see myself wearing and I am focused on not hanging on to pieces that are too "faddy" or unwearable for work. The biggest challenge was creating space for all the folded clothes, like tanks and workout pants and jeans. 

The plan: 
- Buy hanging bar to double hanging space in one closet
- Separate fall/winter shoes and put them in storage
- Create storage for folded clothes and for underthings
- Create storage for accessories and extras

The results:
1: Wicker baskets for headbands, scarves, hats, etc...
2: More wicker baskets hold belts, bracelets and other accessories
3: Shoe organizer holds my daily wear shoes for summer (Unseen, to the right, containers hold my less-worn summer shoes and dressy heels. Winter shoes are in storage)
4: Soft-side closet shelves (it spins!) holds tons of accessories and shoes (Bed, Bath & Beyond)
5: Folding jewelry organizer holds earrings and daintier jewels (Target)
6: Belt hook holds wider and basic belts
7: Two-drawer container holds buttons and misc. items for quick-fixes
8: Soft-side bins hold intimates, socks, etc...
9: Plastic drawers, tucked away, hold workout clothes, tanks, sweatshirts and less-used items
10: Closet-doubler instantly provides extra hanging space in any closet! (Bed, Bath & Beyond)


TOTAL COST = $65
**Most items I had from before and simply reorganized or used them in new ways. 






I still need to overhaul the front entry closet, but it is very large and going to require an entire day of work to get it really clean and functional. I might even rope Al into helping me with that one - I'll probably have to bribe him with beer or something!
I'm sure things will change here and there as I decide better or more efficient ways of storing things, but until then, I am happy with the results. 
What do you think? Should I supplement my income by being a professional organizer?

Monday, May 14, 2012

7 Money Rules for Life: A Giveaway

I am hosting another giveaway!

This time the prize is a book: 7 Money Rules for Life by Mary Hunt


Full disclosure: I won this book from HUN, but after scanning through it, decided that it would probably serve others better than it does me. 


The contest will run until I return from my Minnesota graduation weekend on Monday!
Good Luck!


Saturday, May 12, 2012

Saturday Share

Today is Al's birthday, so he's calling the shots. We'll see what he comes up with for entertainment. In the meantime, enjoy these links for your Saturday:


DO: Cut diet soda out of your diet (for your health!) by YouBeauty


If you do cut diet soda out and feel the lack of energy - try Starbucks Happy Hour!


READ: About why women are more ambitious (or not - you tell me...) by The Careerist


SUPPORT: One (or more) of the lovely milspouses you know, by nominating them for AllYou Mag's Military Mom contest!




Happy Saturday (And Happy Birthday, baby!)



Friday, May 11, 2012

MiLiTaRy SpOuSe ApPrEcIaTiOn DaY 2012

Today, HH6Diva and Riding the Roller Coaster are hosting a Military Spouse Appreciation Day blog-hop. Many of our amazing blogger cohorts are traveling to D.C. this weekend for the Milblogger Conference and Milbloggie awards! I am so proud of all those amazing ladies and secretly a little jealous that I can't be there with them. There's just not time on the calendar or money in the pocket for those adventures!

So, instead, we are having a internet-wide blog-hop for MSADay - How fun!
I suppose you're wondering who I am? 


My name is Melissa, but I go by Mel. 
I've been a military spouse for just over 14 months. Prior to that I was a military fiance, girlfriend, officer candidate and lifelong supporter. You could say that the military has always been a part of my life. You can definitely say the military has shaped who I am, for better or worse.
I am an almost-JD, with my law school graduation ceremony next weekend! It is just my soldier-husband and myself, no animals, no babies. For now, that's enough for us. We've both spent a lot of time focusing on our dreams, as individuals and as a couple and we are happy, after 3.5 years apart, to be living together in the same state. 
We are stationed at Ft. Carson in Colorado Springs, CO and before that, we were at Ft. Bliss in El Paso, TX. (Shout out to my Bliss ladies!) I love Colorado so far and look forward to making a life here. I have a huge list of things I want to accomplish in Colorado and we will see where the Army takes us from here!
Lastly, I want to take a moment and appreciate all the wonderful military spouses I've met on this journey (you know who you are!) I love this community of women (and men) more than I could express on this humble blog. If you're a milspouse, consider yourself thanked and hugged. If you're not, please take 10 seconds out of your day and say "thank you" to one of these amazing and beautiful people, who sacrifice every single day!


Happy Milspouse Appreciation Day!

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Winner, Winner!

Tomorrow, I am participating in Military Spouse Appreciation Day blog-hop. Then, I have a great post planned (finally) to show you all the great organization projects I did around the house this week. 

In the meantime, I am going to announce the winner of my Amazon.com gift card giveaway.




Congratulations, Lisa!
I will email you shortly to confirm your prize!

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

First Impressions

I had the pleasure of meeting a few of Al's co-workers and his Platoon Sgt this weekend. They all seem like great guys and Al has spoken highly of them thus far. In fact, when we went to lunch, his Platoon Sgt toasted me and my success in graduating law school. I'm fairly certain his last chain of command couldn't care less about the wives' successes. It was a sweet gesture and a pretty good indicator that we are going to get along with him and his family. 

In fact, Al is enjoying his new unit so much there have been rumblings of staying in again. You see, prior to Ft. Carson (and my arrival here) it was almost a guarantee we'd be done when his current contract was up. He'll be past the 8-year mark so there would be no chance of stop-loss or getting called back. He could still go Reserve if he desired, while going to school, but he would be done with AD.

Now that things are going well - he's got a great command and is doing his actual job - he is on the Army-love bandwagon once again. We always knew we would take each enlistment as it came and not solidify any plans until we had to and, frankly, I'm not surprised that Al is considering staying in. He's happy again and fulfilled in his job.

If he stays in, (and we're still a very, very long way from deciding anything) it would not be enlisted. He talks about going Warrant and flying choppers or some other Warrant artillery jobs. In the meantime, we're loving Colorado, his current command and our prospects for making a life here. If I can get a good job, we can really make this a home. 

First impressions are everything and this place has left me with a good one!

Monday, May 7, 2012

My Birthday Recap {Baseball and Beer}

A quick recap of my birthday: 


I woke up at 7:30am and Al made me breakfast in bed (sort of - we don't eat in bed!)
I spent the morning lazing around the apartment and messing around on the internet. 
Around 11:30, I answered a knock at the door to find a flower delivery:
(from Caroline)


We left for Denver at 2pm and went for Sushi.
Then we headed to Coors Field for the Colorado Rockies game:
(which already crossed something off my list!)
We had amazing seats - 3rd row in left field:
And we got to see a Michael Cuddyer (for MN Twin) hit a grand slam in the first inning. Granted the game went downhill fast and we left in the 8th inning with the Atlanta Braves beating the Rockies 10 - 8. On the drive home, it started to rain and the game was delayed an hour before resuming. We caught the last bit of the game on TV and the final score was 13 - 9.


It was a lot of fun to go to a baseball game just for the food and fun. I wasn't emotionally invested in the game or either team, like I am in Minnesota, so we were able to just enjoy the whole experience and leave whenever we wanted to. 


Al left for the field this morning for the week. I am happy to have some time to really dig into all the closets and finally get everything organized! I also have to do final edits on both of my long papers, so this will be a busy week. I hope to have that all done by the time he returns on Thursday. 


Did you enter my giveaway yet

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Saturday Share {On Sunday}

I've read a lot of girl-power-esque articles recently and I wanted to share them. I always find that self-affirmation and female friendships that empower and encourage are vital for a healthy, happy life. So, today, consider me your friend who is passing along good, positive words to start your week!

And then go cherish all the wonderful things your body can do!

GO: On an inexpensive vacation, and focus on yourself!

DO: This before you turn 30 - I bet you'll already have many of them crossed off!


I have some fun stuff coming up this week, including some posts of all the organizing projects I've been doing around the apartment. In the meantime, go enter my giveaway for an Amazon.com e-gift so you can treat yourself to something special!

Saturday, May 5, 2012

30 by 30

I turn 28 today! 
Can I just take a minute and scream into my pillow?!
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Ok. I'm better now.

Having made a huge transition in my life out of school and (hopefully) into the work force and finally moving in with Al in Colorado, things have been a little chaotic. In all the good ways, of course. 


Have you ever read the What Every Women Should Know Before 30 article? I'm pleased to say that I've already satisfied everything on that list. Of course, that's not all there is to life and with my birthday looming, I have been reflecting on my life recently. I sat down and re-evaluated my goals. 

I have always maintained a "bucket list" of sorts, but I wanted to revamp that list. I have a list of 12 goals I want to focus on this year, but they are not so much large goals as daily improvements I want to strive for throughout the year. I think, ultimately, it is good to have goals that address short-term or small life improvements; mid-term goals; and longer-term life goals. 


Here's my list:

30 by 30
Begin date: May 5, 2012
End date: May 5, 2014

1. Pass the Bar & Get a Job
2. Join Colorado Bar Association
3. Get Pregnant
4. Buy a new car
5. Pay off at least 1/3 of my school loans
6. Lose 15 pounds
7. Learn to salsa dance
8. Go camping (overnight)
9. Tour the Coors Brewery
10. Take snowboarding lessons
11. See a Rockies game at Coors Field
12. See MNSU (my alma mater) play Colorado College in D1 Hockey
13. Read 20 books from my list
14. Go on a honeymoon (finally!)
15. Put together a Shutterfly wedding album
16. Renew my First Aid/CPR certification
17. Get my conceal & carry/license to carry
18. Organize and label all our important family documents
19. Attend the 2013 Milblog Conference
20. Build bedroom bench
21. Eat at the "10 Best" restaurants in Co. Springs 
22. Get another tattoo
23. Take a cruise
24. Participate in the Denver Warrior Dash
25. Sew pillow cases for the living room pillows
26. Purchase a domain and redesign my blog
27. Ride a mechanical bull
28. Visit the Wizard of Oz museum in Kansas
29. Go to a winery and help make my own wine
30. Take a cooking class



Many of them focus on things we can do in Colorado and experiences I'd like to have during our time here. Others are just things I've been meaning to try or that are on the bigger list. I edited the Bucket List tab above to reflect these 30 by 30 goals and the larger bucket list. I might add to this as I go as new things pique my interest (I'm shooting for 100 on the big list) and as some priorities change others will drop away. I will update the list as I cross things off as well!


I can't wait to get started...in the meantime, I would love a piece of cheesecake. And maybe a glass of whiskey.

Friday, May 4, 2012

I Live in Colorado

I don't know if you've heard the news, but I live in Colorado. Seriously.
I'm not just visiting, it's not just an extended stay for the summer...
I live here.

It's unreal to think that this day is finally here. I feel as though every thing I've been doing for months, hell, years is for this. This, right here.

I'm still getting settled in and tomorrow is my birthday (28 - eek!) so I'm still too busy to write a real post. After this weekend, I will be back with a more complete update and to tell you just how fantastic my new home is.

Did I mention that home is in Colorado?


(Enter my giveaway before it ends!)

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Loyal Readers: A Giveaway

As I transition into the next part of my life, I can't help but be introspective. So much has happened over the last three years and I am very tired but extremely happy. I owe much of my success through that time to blogging - having a place to come and share my thoughts, feelings, secrets; having an outlet for all of those emotions; and building a great support group of readers, fans and lifelong friends. 


Today, I want to say thank you!


Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being on this journey with me. For navigating this crazy life, for better or worse, and for being brazen enough to put it all on the web. I appreciate your readership and your friendship and look forward to many more years together!


Speaking of the future, I have a lot of ideas rolling around regarding the future of this blog. I am considering purchasing a domain and revamping the entire look of the blog. I am also looking into ways to monetize, or at least allow for advertisements and other small money-making capabilities. None of this has made it past the research and development phase, but when it does, I am sure I will reach out for help. I expect to move forward late summer, if at all.


So, I've said my words, but now it's time to put my money where my mouth is. 
As promised, a giveaway!

WHICH GIVEAWAY PRIZE WOULD YOU MOST LIKE TO WIN?


Last week, I asked you to participate in a survey to see what kind of prizes you would like to receive as a prize on my blog. An overwhelming number of you said an Amazon.com gift card. I can't blame you - I LOVE shopping on Amazon.com as well!

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

On the Road Again...

Today, I am off to Colorado, with my car stuffed to the gills. I am bringing one of my favorite ladies with me, so there will be the perfect blend of snacks, tunes and snarking and I have someone to help keep me awake. We may use the time to teach her how to drive a stick so I have a little break from the pedals. 

Really, though, I'm just hoping I don't get pulled over (like the last time...and the time before that.)


Please check back here tomorrow, when I will launch another great giveaway.